it’s probably more to do with confidence than anything
and dont forget, most people are really fucking stupid (or at least not as smart as they could be if they woke the fuck up)
it’s always interesting to see how people behave, like how they watch a movie or how they have a conversation or sit on a bus… it’s really like being in a zoo and watching a bunch of monkeys
if you are experienced with meditation and all that shit you will observe a general lack of meta-awareness (aware of their own awareness)
basically people are zombies
anyone who will make them feel a little special will probably be perceived as charismatic
and people who make them feel bad they will think is an asshole
according to my dictionairy charisma means:
Compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others.